Skilling Up

Hear from Rev. Alexander Diaz, Pastor, Queen of Apostles Catholic Church, Alexandria, VA regarding our enhanced offertory work:

“One of my top priorities as a pastor is to listen to my parishioners. The survey was an excellent tool; it not only gave me answers to many of my questions but also helped the parish move forward with a highly successful offertory program. I am happy with the outcome and grateful to Dave Cook for leading us through the journey.”

Synodality has a lot to teach stewardship.

That was the lesson learned conducting an increased offertory program at Queen of Apostles Church in Alexandria, Virginia this Fall.

Facing declining income and a deficit budget, pastor Fr. Alexander Diaz knew that urgent action was needed when he reached out over the summer about running an offertory program. “It was not a pretty outlook,” he said.

Together, we created a plan that followed the usual template for offertory programs: Clearly communicate the need, prayerfully ask for the commitment, sincerely acknowledge the gift. We also placed emphasis on parish membership since Queen of Apostles frequently sees new families worshiping at the parish.

The first step, however, was to analyze the parish’s current giving trends. In doing so, a concerning pattern emerged: Many faithful parishioners were not giving as regularly over the past year, leading to a more than 15% overall decline in offertory giving. The reasons weren’t evident simply looking at the numbers. The implication, though, was clear: We needed to gain a better understanding of how parishioners felt about the parish before launching into an offertory program.

Therefore, it was decided that a parish-wide survey should be conducted. Organizing the survey needed to happen quickly so that the offertory program would not be delayed. Despite the short planning window, the survey was deployed in early September without a hitch. It was made available online and by hard copy, and was presented in both English and Spanish. Nearly 200 responses were collected over a ten-day period.

The results were enlightening. Across varied questions about leadership, liturgy, ministry and operations, Fr. Diaz and the parish received consistently positive ratings. If there was one pattern of concern, it was that parishioners wanted to see new life breathed into the parish, but understood the challenges of securing volunteers and other resources to do so. Perhaps most critically, parishioners praised Fr. Diaz simply for listening – for practicing synodality, not just preaching it.

Equipped with the rich feedback from the survey, we went into the offertory program confidently and with a clear plan: to affirm the love parishioners have for the parish, to speak openly about the parish’s urgent financial needs, and to cast a positive vision for the future. Would these messages have been conveyed without the survey? Certainly so. But now, there was a sense that Fr. Diaz was in dialogue with parishioners, and not merely speaking to them.

Weeks later, the fruits of this synodal process abound. Parish offertory giving has increased by more than 20%. Online recurring giving is up by 15%. Second collection giving has increased as well, particularly for the school and the building maintenance fund.

Of the nearly 200 commitments that were made, 28% came from newly registered families, and 44% were collected during the parish’s Spanish Masses.

A $35,000 income deficit-to-budget has all but been erased in less than a month’s time.

Fr. Diaz demonstrated what it means to be a listening parish, and parishioners responded with increased generosity. Queen of Apostles is a shining example of how synodality and stewardship go hand-in-hand!

To conduct a similar program at your parish, contact Dave Cook at [email protected] or 202-725-7226 for a free consultation. 


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About PATRICK

Patrick Diener is a dynamic leader with a diverse background in philanthropy, nonprofit leadership, and executive coaching. Over the past two decades, Patrick has successfully driven growth for organizations ranging from international NGOs to small Catholic parishes, delivering strategic solutions that align with mission, values, and long-term sustainability. Recognized for his innovative approach to fundraising and business development—rooted in both theology and psychology—Patrick brings a deep understanding of how faith and philanthropy intersect, ensuring that all initiatives are mission-driven and spiritually grounded.

Patrick has held several executive leadership roles, both in consulting and leading fundraising operations for a variety of successful nonprofits. From spearheading large diocesan and university capital campaigns to managing the fundraising at multiple nonprofit organizations, Patrick has consistently delivered strong outcomes. His expertise in building and training high-performing teams has enabled organizations to surpass fundraising goals, secure major gifts, and strengthen long-term donor relationships. Patrick’s hands-on leadership style and strategic vision have empowered nonprofits to grow in scale, mission impact, and financial sustainability.

Additionally, Patrick founded the Institute for Catholic Philanthropy at the University of Mary, a pioneering certificate and MBA program that equips Catholic fundraising professionals with the tools they need for success, rooting best practices in philanthropy within the Catholic faith. This program is recognized for providing fundraisers with a deep, faith-based approach while delivering practical skills that align with the unique needs of Catholic organizations.

Patrick resides in Cheshire, CT with his wife Kathryn and their six children.  They are active parishioners at Blessed Michael McGivney Parish in New Haven. In his spare time, Patrick enjoys skiing, photography, and running an amateur sugaring operation on his historic micro-farm.

Education

  • UNC Charlotte, B.A., Anthropology
  • Pontifical John Paul II Institute for Marriage and Family Studies at the Catholic University of America, M.T.S., Sacred Theology
  • University of Southern Mississippi, Post Grad Studies, Systems Theory
    Association of Fundraising Professionals (AFP)
  • Master Trainer
    Certified Fundraising Executive (CFRE)

Community Involvement

  • Legatus Member, Fairfield CT Chapter

  • Member, Council 1, Knights of Columbus  

     

About Dave

Dave Cook is an entrepreneurial non-profit leader devoted to helping missions reach their full potential. He has served in myriad executive and development roles over a 20-year career. He is animated by his faith and enjoys exploring new and creative ways to promote human flourishing.

Dave is a graduate of the University of Notre Dame with a bachelors in mathematics and philosophy. He later attained an MBA at George Mason University. Throughout his career, he has applied best practices in entrepreneurship and business to the non-profit world. As Director of Programs at the Youth Leadership Foundation, he more than doubled program capacity and helped YLF be recognized as one of the “Best Non-Profits in the Greater Washington Area” by the Catalogue for Philanthropy. He went on to serve as Executive Director for YLF, establishing the organization’s first annual giving program and securing coverage for YLF’s programs on national television.

Dave’s first foray into the diocesan world was as Director of Operations and Stewardship for a Catholic parish in the Diocese of Arlington, Virginia. Overseeing all the temporal activities of the church and school, Dave expanded ministry volunteerism, improved school enrollment and initiated multiple capital improvement projects, among other managerial duties. Eventually, Dave moved across the Potomac River to become Director of the Annual Appeal for the Archdiocese of Washington, where he navigated the covid-19 pandemic through novel digital and integrated marketing forms of donor outreach, inspiring nearly 30,000 gifts and $11 million in donations per year from the local faithful to support archdiocesan ministries. He then expanded his horizons internationally, serving as Executive Director for World Villages for Children, the North American development arm of the Sisters of Mary of Banneux, a religious order committed to lifting children out of poverty.

Dave’s past volunteer service includes membership on the Diocese of Arlington Pastoral Council, the Board of Directors for the International Catholic Stewardship Council and the Board of Directors for the Youth Leadership Foundation. He currently serves as Finance Council Chair for Queen of Apostles Catholic Church in Alexandria, Virginia. He is also a Knight of Columbus, Eucharistic adorer, lector, basketball coach and men’s group leader at his parish. Dave is a devoted husband and father of six children. He enjoys spending time with family and friends, playing basketball and golf, and watching his beloved Fighting Irish on TV on Fall Saturdays.

 

Education

  • Notre Dame, M.S., Mathematics & Philosophy
  • George Mason University, MBA

Community Involvement

  • Youth Leadership Foundation – Director of Programs
  • World Villages for Children, Executive Director